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Waves of sentiments touches your heart when you hold your newborn for the first time. And then comes the amazing feeling that pregnancy time is over and finally you will see your baby and enjoy the most unforgettable moment of your lifetime.
After that you have to deal with plethora of advice bombs that will completely blast your excitement and enthusiasm. Some of them will be very annoying and some will be complete cliche but when you are a mother of new born, you wish to listen those advices to become the best mom in the world.
These pretty lies are meant to help you as a new mother but when your little new soul makes his face red and scream at 2 P.M at that moment such lies doesn’t help at all. Although they act as motivators and boost your confidence. Lets discuss some pretty lies :
Breastfeeding will fall off your baby weight
Sorry to say mommies this is not applicable with all the mothers out there. But some women are born with the gift of awesome metabolism, this is the reason why they reduce weight so quickly even after eating cheese cake in breakfast. Some women eat more then normal during breastfeeding because hormones ask them to eat so. So my dear ladies out there until and unless you have a good metabolism , you can not reduce weight until you stop breastfeeding.
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You can sleep when the baby sleeps
When you are living with a new born, you forget to do all the necessary work and just remember to feed baby, make him sleep, make him bath etc. Therefore, when he finally sleeps , suddenly you realize that there are plethora of things pending in your household to-do list. You can shower, wash clothes and eat something. Because due to so much work load you forget to feed yourself.
It goes fast, Enjoy it
Another big lie. Yes, it looks fast when you bear that 11 hours labor pain which feels like 11 days and when it’s over. It does looks fast. Baby’s doesn’t like to sleep specially when you feel asleep the most. They will explode poop when you think that the day is over and they night sleep anytime. The journey of cleaning poops and making them feel comfortable so that they can sleep, looks like a never ending trip and it surely doesn’t go fast.
First few months are the best
Surely they are, but they are the most hardest as well. Suddenly, your life starts and ends with caring your baby all the time. You forget to even comb your hair and brush your teeth. You get stressed so much. Participating in the race of becoming the best mommy makes you depressed and some times guilty as well. But when you see your baby’s first smile, touch his toes and finger, you feel good and the stressed and guilt portion looks like vanishing. So go ahead and enjoy the feel instead of trying to do the best parenting.
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Things get easier
This lie is loved by all the mom’s as it helps them to move forward with a smile. It doesn’t get easier but gets different. When your baby starts walking, things get hard differently. When he talks, you feel good but the fear, the guilt and the stress remains same. It has been observed that with the passing time you figure out things and you grow and so do your baby.
We know that it’s more complicated than it looks like but inspite of so many hurdles, pain and sacrifices that one smile of your little soul subdues all the stress you have faced during the journey of motherhood.
