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Here in this post, we have mentioned some of the tricks and techniques of good parenting needed to make kids discipline or well behaved.
Teaching discipline to the kids is not as formidable as it sounds. For this, you yourself have to be disciplined and focused and then just ready for the miracle to happen.
Here we have figured it out how!
Let us guide you through these tips!
Don’t be harsh- Give Respect, Take Respect!
When babies step into this world they are born like an empty vessel. They don’t about the tantrums of the world- what’s right or what’s wrong! They don’t know their limits. It is up to us what we want to make out of them.
It’s a proven fact that babies while growing into a toddler has the best learning power. They have the capability of learning from all their senses, whatever they see, whatever they hear and everything else. Hence it is very important to make them understand the thing with the utmost politeness. Just don’t be harsh when you bind them to abide by the rules set by you in order to make them discipline.
Make Them Aware... why?
- While growing up kids tend to ask a lot of questions like how, why and when.
- Before implying your rules on your kids, just be ready in advance with a better explanation.
- For example- if you force your kid to drink milk against their will, they definitely wo n’t!
- Unless you came up with a good reason... why!
- Try telling them instead with the politeness of course, “You need to drink milk to stay strong and to kick out the bed monster!”
Please Them By Praise
- You would definitely agree with us that encouragement and appreciation both works wonder in the case of adults too, and kids are already tender by heart. So, never forget to appreciate them for their little efforts, this boosts their confidence and encourage them to keep up the good work!
- So be it the bedmaking, helping in the kitchen or gardening or anything.
- Just appreciate their work
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Be Self-Disciplined Yourself
As mentioned above that kids learn things, habits and what not from their surrounding and from their adults.
So, if we want them to abide by the rules or to be a disciplined kid, it is really important for us to set a good example for them.
Small habits like keeping the things in place and not getting agitated easily or screaming out often when frustrated. When your kids will watch you out doing good things in a well-behaved manner they would do the same.
- Give them a Chance to Make their Decisions on their own!
- Here, we are not talking about the big decisions about their future or career but the little one that to them at least.
- For example- let them choose the clothes which make them feel comfortable, food choices once a week.\
- Also, if they ever get into a fight with their siblings, ask them politely the matter and let them decide their further deeds.
- If they are wrong in any of the above-discussed cases then never be rude at handling these matters. Try sorting out it an easy manner.
Build their Conscience
If your kid by chance happen to break your rules and he/she is feeling guilty about then make him more uncomfortable by criticizing. Don’t try to demean him further. Use this as an opportunity instead and guide them through what are the circumstances of doing wrong things and not following the rules.
Teach them to be patient by making to be a part of such activities
Being patient is a great skill, overlooking the situations of this fast world around, we all want immediate results. But try your best to inculcate the habit of being patient in your kid. Indulge them in the activities such as a puzzle solving, planting seeds or any activity which requires patience and time.
Encourage the Attitude of Practice makes a Man Perfect!
- It is well-known fact that nobody is a born pro in any skill or work, its all about the practice. Don’t ever let your kid feel bad if he fails at first. Try encouraging him to put in more efforts, the next time. Otherwise, he is not going to learn anything and will keep on quitting every work he fails at.
- Hence, it is really important to develop this attitude in your kid.
Mentioned above are some of the tips that newbie parents should keep in mind while raising their kid. We hope you like our efforts of putting these tricks and tips together in a post.
