Motherhood Makes you Confident

Motherhood is near to Divinity. Its the highest holiest service to be assumed by Mankind - Howard W. Hunter

A baby brings immense happiness and joy in your life. Motherhood changes you completely; gives you strength and makes you stronger. Every time you keep on thinking whether you will be able to do it correctly or not, as a newborn baby is super delicate and you need to be very careful while handling her/him. Don’t panic, you need to be more confident, patient and calm as handling a baby is not so easy.

Newborn baby will keeping testing your wits constantly, so keep relaxed and try to enjoy it. Being a mommy is mainly a self-confidence game. The more confident you are, the less stress you will feel and your baby will share the same feeling and will more calm. Your mommyhood will go more smoothly and confidently.

Being unsure is not that bad. If you are feeling uncertain, then you are taking your motherhood super seriously. By recognizing the all crucial part you play in molding your child’s self esteem, personality, and physical well being, you have reached the first step of being a great mother.
Your baby already thinks that you have all the greatest qualities of a mother and our tips will help you believe it too. Have you started your journey of being a confident mother? Here are some tips that will help you along the way

Think you are a pro

To feel your confidence, try to start acting like it. If you look and feel confident, then your baby will feel more safer, calmer and happier. Always think that you know everything about baby care and suddenly you will realize that you are feeling more confident.

Stop thinking you are a “ bad mommy”

Just because your baby fell down while crawling and you weren’t there because you were busy doing other household work, doesn't make you a bad mommy. Get rid of your guilt feeling first. Always remember that all kid and even a small little baby get hurt sometime, it’s an obvious thing. During their developing age, kids and baby’s try different things, like started crawling or trying to walk first time or playing with toys. They may get hurt but it will some how help in their development process. So stop feeling guilty about such things and start being more confident.

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Work it out in private

You may face many situations where in crowd, your baby starts feeling uncomfortable and it becomes hard for you to calm him/her down. So in such situation just try to find a private place to calm down your little baby. It will not only help you child to get out from a provoking environment but also protect you from unsolicited advice. Privately handling your baby without any help from relatives will make you a more confident mother.

Jot down every information

Every mother thinks that she know answers to all the questions pediatricians ask; from the baby’s temperature, height to weight before walking into his office. But the research has shown that mothers with stress suddenly forget her babies name before entering pediatrician office. So always bring notes to every appointment and note down the doctor’s instructions properly. It will increase your confidence as you will be having all related documents and information with you.

Show your emotions

It’s very natural to lose your calm when your baby has been crying for last three hours or your toddler is showing tantrums. Surprise! Surprise! Sometimes it’s good for your baby to see you sad and frustrated, say what you are thinking, “ I was feeling sad, but now I am feeling better” or “ I got frustrated but now I am feeling okay.” Always remember your child will learn how to control her/his emotions from you. Once he/she feels frustrated or sad, at that time he/she will remember how you reacted. See you can even handle your baby easily when he/she is out of control. Be confident!

Take time for yourself

Psychologists say that taking an hour or 15 minutes break every now and then, is required for good parenting. If you don’t have time to rejuvenate yourself, then you are not going to be at your best for your child. Every parent needs balance in their lives. If you don’t replenish your soul, then you are going to be more impatient, frustrated and will lose temper in every situation. Recharge yourself by listening to some good music or taking a quick bubble bath. Show your baby that taking care of yourself is a priority and become his/her role model.

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Share happiness together

Spend some quality and undistracted time with your baby. Be with you baby every time because his/her childhood will never come back. It’s the right time to make her/him feel the love. Seeing your baby conquer a new milestone will make you feel that you are doing a good job.
Hope these tips will help you in becoming a more confident mom which you already are but because of that new mommy fear are not ready to realize yet. Let over come the fear and raise your child confidently.