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If your child is misbehaving all of a sudden and he knows the right behavior. It indicates that your child is suffering from a feeling which is stopping him to show is right behavior. In this situation inspite of punishing them, You can teach them about the right things and difference between good and bad behavior. Stay connected with your kids, try to understand their emotions and teach them a lesson instead of punishment which prevents him from misbehaving. Kids always need your guidance they would learn what you teach them. So when kids try to misbehave with you, calm yourself, or try to listen them with patiently. Here are some basic steps for what to say and what your kids learn. Lets check it out:
1. Set appropriate limits, with an understanding of your child's perspective
When your child doesn't know how to behave and start shouting then first take a deep breath and try to solve their problem and perspective by teaching common things. Like “don’t throw blocks at home they will destroy the walls, go outside and play with the ball”. Try to avoid losing tempers otherwise, you will punish your kid which is not a good idea. Try to reconnect with them. By this, your children learn that, when parents ask them not to do something politely and always understand their kids viewpoint.
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2. Acknowledge feelings
When you raise your voice in front of your children, by this they will never be able to understand the difference between the good and the bad things. It is not the solution to help them, if your kid is misbehaving. Like if you shout and say “ I told you to stop playing and start eating! How many times do I have to tell you”? means your kid is busy somewhere, instead of shouting, teach him like “if you eat your meal, you will grow faster and will be able to play with big games and then try to give them a reward like if you eat your meal properly, after that I will give you some chocolates. This will definitely help you to connect with your kids and you will avoid punishing them.
3. Help your child reflect
Teaching your child by talking and listening them is the best way to grow them. You have already noticed that lectures don’t work, so try to teach them when they are in good mood and ready to learn. Try to help them by kids way - like, “I know baby that you were worried that we would be late at the birthday party, I got nervous when I hear your loud voice and by this, I was unable to drive safely, so if there is another way to let me know that you are worried about anything, please choose that way next time”. By this your child learns that staying calm and finding out the solutions will make them a right person and this ways parents will understand them more well.
There is a solution to every problem, so never lose your temper, don’t get hyper, teach your kids by giving basic examples instead of any type of punishment and understand their priority first. Have a great parenting ahead.
